10 Tips if you are in your 40s and want to start a skin care regime


When I was 20 something I never worried about my skin. I was dark-skinned. In Asia -Sri Lanka
 ( where I am from, fair skin is considered more beautiful). So I did try the 'lime and yogurt' mask etc. My dark skin might have bothered other people but it didn't bother me too much. If I remember correctly in my teen and early twenties, I loved DIY skincare, and to prevent acne and pimples I just used the Neutrogena Transparent Soap Bar. 

In my late 20s, I got on a small skincare regimen. It was the Clinique Liquid Soap and Scrub for combination skin. 

However after my first pregnancy and going into my late thirties. My skin started to have more pigmentation and loose texture. I also started to get adult acne. This worried me, it meant I needed to wear makeup to cover up scars and being a mother, I really didn't have time to do this on a daily basis. That's when I started reading up on skincare. If I were to put it in a fancy way...started my skincare journey. I realized that skincare had really moved far beyond "fair and lovely creams" and "my mother used Clinique and my grandmother used Clinique, so I will use Clinique" to safer, more effective products that give quicker. So my skincare goal is to wear less makeup as possible and do as little as possible. 

So here is some quick tip from my to help you start your skincare journey if you are in your 40s. 

1. Start looking after your skin early 

2. If you do nothing else - CLEANSE

3. Remove your makeup before you go to sleep

4. Good skin may be good genetics but environmental factors play a big part

5. What you eat also plays a big part

6. Use SPF, it transformed my skin

7. Exfoliate, it reduced my pores

8. Have a 3 step skincare routine 

9. Keep your self hydrated, drink water!!!

10. Whatever you do, do it consistently 

Wedding Favors Yours Guests Will Love

Wedding favors are a lovely way of thanking your guests for their attendance. Wedding favors are not compulsory, but they can be a fun way to add personalization. Finding the perfect wedding favor...and by perfect I mean cost-effective and useful, can be a bit of a headache for brides but the ones I've found don't break the bank and are quite a lovely touch to your wedding. 
Mint To Be Mint & Dark Chocolate - All Natural, Handcrafted Gourmet Marshmallows
Key Bottle Openers
Personalized Wine Stoppers
Personalized Wedding Tea Towels
Personalized blankets
Personalized Southern Jam Jars
Wooden Tealight Holders
 Ecofriendly Personalised Scented Beeswax Candle

The Perfect Blend Personalized Coffe Bags, Wedding Favors For Guests

Wild Flower Seed Envelopes
Personalized Wedding Soap Favors


Olive oil Wedding favors - Greek wedding favors 

10 Valentines Day Gift that are Ready to Ship

Check out these 10 Valentines' Day Gifts that are ready to ship!
 Shiny Little Blessing on Etsy
2. Personalized Valentine's Day Gift for Him, Penny Keychain
Image via DayZee Creationz

Image via snarkiepanda
Image via MignonandMignon
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6. Personalized silver heart necklace
Image via aandlengraving   
7. Dainty Bar Bracelet with roman Numeral Engraving
Image via LuluLalabyLee
8. Birthstone Tree of Life Necklace for Her
Image via Saruscrafts
9.I'm Yours No Refunds Mug - Valentine gift for her  
Image via Berkley Rose Co
10. Valentine's Dog Bandana for your pet Doggy
Image via The L Team

My Favorite 2020 Make Up Trends

It seems 2020 make up trends are really leaning towards FUN. There is sparkle, color, eye embellishments and it seems like there are very few things a 'mum on the go' can incorporate into their busy lives. But that is where I come in. I am going to break down my top 10 favorite trends but to be honest, these are actually more CLASSIC trends that seem to be in every year. They are easy to do and don't take much effort and your child probably won't feel embarrassed when you come to get them from school.

1. Glossy Nude

This is a mix of your favorite lip balm and go-to nude lipstick. So easy right!!! I have dark lips so this is my favorite quick fix for a quick, natural day time look. You can use your sheer nude and earth tone lip colors and add your favorite lip balm on up for an almost glossy finish. I also use my matte lip pencils to get this look and just add a touch of lip balm on top. 
Image via @nikkideroest

2. No More Wild Brows
No more 'I got up like this brows'. Here is in Sri Lanka we have brow threading...yep painful but it gives a long-lasting neat brow. I do this once a month...I tried waxing my bows, shaving them but prefer this combination of threading and trimming. It is not the best method but it is the method I love for my self. So I only recommend it to brave of heart.
 But you really don't need to go as far as I do to keep your brows neat. One thing I do to my brows every day is brushing them with a small eyebrow brush or even a small toothbrush with very soft bristles would do, it just keeps them in place. Adding a little brow gel also helps in keeping them in place.

Benefit GIMME BROW + VOLUMIZING EYEBROW GEL  

3. Barely there Lip Stain
It gets easier and easier. One of the 2020 makeup trends is a barely-there lip stain. Lip stains give that touch of color and are super low maintenance. Perfect when you have got 10 minutes to get ready and go out the door. 

Image via @zhannamua in Instagram
benefit LIP AND CHEEK TINT 

BURT'S BEES 100% NATURAL ALL AGLOW LIP & CHEEK STICK 8.5G (VARIOUS SHADES)

4. Inner glow

Manifest your inner glow with glowy, dewy skin. *wink. Glowy skin is in. One way to get a lovely highlight in your skin is to wear your LIQUID highlighter before your foundation. After your moisturizer, add a liquid highlighter onto your cheekbones, forehead, and down the nose. Once you add your foundation over this, your skin looks radiant as a glow comes through the foundation. 

Image via @jilliandempsey on Instagram
Overstock.com- GlamGlow GlowStarter 1.7-ounce Mega Illuminating Moisturizer Nude

5. Less is more, Skin is in

Over the past years we have seen more opaque, ultra-matte coverage, in 2020 the trend is towards a more natural, sheer coverage. This works out so well for me because I don't wear foundation daily. My morning routine most days is cleansing, tone and use a moisturizer with an SPF, so I try to take care of my skin better.
So the way to go in 2020 is the lighter the better,  with sheer, more natural products. Let your skin your stand out feature. Use a tinted hydrating moisturizer or a water-tint foundation as a base that adds a glow to your skin. You can add a dab of blush onto the apples of your cheeks for colors.
 And for a more glam look use a brow pen to highlight your eyebrows, a clear brow gel to keep them in place,  add your favorite mascara, use an eyeliner to create those wings and a nude, glossy lip.


Image via Pop  Sugar

6. Pops of colors 

Pops of color everywhere, from your eyeshadow to your lipsticks.  Yellows, purples, rainbow shades, mismatched colors in everything from eyeliners, eyeshadows and lipsticks...oh my. Which one is right for you is the fun part. 

Image via ILLAMASQUA - ARTISTRY PALETTE - EXPERIMENTAL

7.  Sparkly Eyes

Sparkly glitter eyeshadow in shades of lilac, pink, purple...To be honest glitter eyes are a trend almost every year. It is just too much fun and fabulous. Yes, you are a mum but isn't this a super trend to try for a girl's night out? 
Image via NIP+FAB created using MAKE UP EYE SHADOW PALETTE - WONDERLAND
NIP+FAB MAKE UP EYE SHADOW PALETTE - WONDERLAND

Orglamix Cosmetic Grade, 5Pk Glitter Powder Kit on Etsy

8. Shades of blue 

Pantone's 2020 color of the year is Classic Blue so if there is one color that we will be seeing a lot if this year is blue. I love this jewel-tone eyeshadow in 'sapphire' worn on the models at the spring 2020 LaQuan Smith show. 
Image via Cosmopolitan
Image via @spryormakeup on Instagram created using Illamasqua Expressionist Artistry Palette

9. Bold Lips

I am so glad that bold lips are still in. In 2019, I really came out of my neutral and pink lipstick shell and started wearing bold colors like red. The 2020 way to wear your favorite bold lip is with a neutral face - with brushed-up brows, natural eye makeup, and a bold lip, which makes life much easier for me. 
My current favorite bold lipstick is Illamasqua Antimatter Lipstick in midnightIllamasqua antimatter lipstick.  I was never a red lipstick fan but this red color really suited my dark Asian skin tone. 
Illamasqua Antimatter Lipstick in Midnight
Illamasqua Antimatter Lipstick in Energy

10. Bold red on the Eyes

You know black smokey eyes but have you seen red smokey eyes?  If there is one look I would like to try this year is this red smokey eye look. 
Take a look at the gorgeous ruby-red smokey eye below? Doesn't it look amazing? 
Image via @kilprity

Guardian of Sunset — The Sunset Desert, SIGIL inspired Tammy Tanuka Loose Eyeshadow

Sigilinspired on Etsy - The Wild Empress — The Castle of Night, Loose Eyeshadow
Sigilinspired on Etsy - Loose Eyeshadow "Hardhead" - The Everblooming Lands




20 Linen Outfits for the Minimalist


I love minimalist outfits. What does this mean to me?  When choosing a dress our a top, I am a fan of clean, structured looks that require little to no fuss at all. My style motto is usually "less is more", as a mom I prefer the this approach especially when choosing an outfit in the morning rush. A simple dress, my little hoop earrings or a delicate gold necklace is usually what I prefer to a bold printed blouse and an extravagant necklace or anything I have to mix and match or ponder on for more than a minute. ( But this is just the minimalist me in the mornings).
When it comes to fabric I love cotton an linen and tend to lean towards dresses and tops that have some small detail that makes them stand out. I find the weave and texture of linen outfits interesting and fabric itself  cooling in this hot tropical island of mine. 
So I constantly lookout for clothes with these detailing, when I find something I like I tend to wear it over and over again. Don't you love clothes like that , that become favorites and almost a part of who you are. So I scoured Etsy to see their choice in linen and wow what a collection I found. 
Here are 20 linen outfit perfect in spring and summer for minimalist in you. 
Washed linen dress from LouEmbrace
Kimono wrap dress from Love and Confuse
Organic hemp fit and flare dress from Simones Rose Boutique

Coral linen dress from Noisy Forest

Linen Dress with ties from  Magic Linen

Striped Linen Dress by  Off On

Wrap Linen Dress by Nich  Dress
Layla Romper from Lee Michelle  Fashion
V neck linen dress with side slits from Flax Linen Shop
Linen pants from Osonian Clothing

Washed Linen Trousers from Linen Cloud

A- Line Linen Midi skirt from Linen Handmade Studio
Loose linen shirt from Linen Bees

Linen Jumpsuit from Esenique
White linen oversized tunic top from Linennaive
Kimono style drop shoulder linen top from Epic Linen
Orange Linen  Maxi Skirt by Xiaolizi
Elise linen play suit by ljcdesignss
Striped Linen dress from Pavietra
Beige linen pants from Saiko Eco Store